For example, the other day I received a message from a guy called Sunny which said: 'I guarantee you that your inbox is flooded with messages lol. Your soo gorgeous, How on earth are you single lol :-) how long you been single for? Would love to get to know ya better...'
I didn't reply as I just felt it was a bit cheesy. Sorry, Sunny!
I also received this slightly confusing and contradictory message from a Danish guy: 'You look so cute... So much friend potential?? Wait.... are you looking for a BF? haha. But I still want you :)'
So I'm confused...is he saying I'm cute, but only as a friend? And that he thinks it's LOLworthy that I'm looking for a boyfriend (which I'm not, showing he didn't read my profile properly, D'OH!)? Or is he saying, that despite looking cute and having the potential to be a friend, he wants me to be girlfriend material? I think the meaning of his message may have got lost in translation.
A
message I received from a guy in Cambridge: 'Hey :) you seen real nice :)
I would love to get to know you better, message me back if you want to chat :)
xxx'
Not
to sound judgemental, but as an English Literature graduate (snobby sounding,
but no shame here!) I get a bit OCD about spelling, and you would not believe
the number of guys I've come across whilst online dating who write 'seen'
instead of 'seem'. It drives me mental!!
And
then I received this mini-essay from a guy in Greenwich, which is possibly my
favourite of this bunch of messages: 'Hey how are you? Well my name is Dan
and I'm 24, I'm down to eart and also can be really careing and thoughtful at
times. I'm a guy who you can have a normal conversation with as well as a
person to talk to when you need some one. I speak my mind all the time but
think about what I'm going to say before, so I don't offend any one, I'm funny
most of the time and I'm always smiling, it takes a lot to get me upset or
annoyed and I'm good at hiding it if I'm upset or what ever because I just want
to see people happy and I don't want them to get upset if I am. I'll also do
what it takes to make sure you feel comfortable even if it's I have to go to
the other side of the park just to talk to you, I can be shy at times but it
will only be the first time we meet or I'll be nervous and be quite. I'm here
just to make some new friends and some people to have a laugh with or to Gosip
about the neighbours ?? I want to stay single for now and just to take it step
by step if even thing did click. Best way I could Describe my self :)'
Yup,
because everyone LOVES to walk to the other side of the park to 'gosip about
the neighbours' with a guy?! Am I missing something?? My mum suggests this
might be a euphemism for something much more exciting, so if anyone can
enlighten me as to its true meaning, I'd be grateful!My next blog entry will be about my date with a guy who's a doctor :)
1940s Girl x